Cuddle Events in Evanston, IL
Cuddles & Connection
A cozy afternoon of connection, consent & platonic touch.
Have you been craving more safe, nurturing human connection?
Join us for Cuddles & Connection, a welcoming space to slow down, connect with yourself and others, and experience the nourishing power of consensual touch.
Through a combination of guided exercises, authentic connection, and plenty of opportunities for cuddling, we’ll explore:
- Asking for what you want
- Practicing boundaries and consent
- Saying yes and no with confidence
- Giving and receiving touch
- Connecting with your body and nervous system
- Experiencing safe, platonic connection
No experience with cuddle parties or consent practices is necessary. You don’t need to be naturally touchy or outgoing, either. Come exactly as you are.
There is never any expectation to touch, cuddle, or participate in any particular activity. Your boundaries are always yours to choose.
Upcoming Cuddles & Connection Events
Come experience an afternoon of authentic connection, consent, playfulness, and platonic cuddling!
October Gathering
Saturday, October 24, 2026
12:00–4:00 PM
Evanston, Illinois
November Gathering
Saturday, November 28, 2026
12:00-4:00 PM
Evanston, Illinois
Investment: $35 per person
Space is limited to keep our gatherings intimate and welcoming.
What to Expect
Cuddles & Connection is a four-hour gathering designed to create opportunities for authentic connection, playful exploration, and consensual platonic touch.
We begin with time to arrive, get comfortable, and settle into the space. Once everyone has arrived, we gather for an opening circle to introduce ourselves, review our community agreements, and establish a shared understanding of consent and boundaries.
Throughout the afternoon, we’ll explore connection through guided activities, authentic relating exercises, and opportunities to practice asking for what we want, saying yes and no, and honoring one another’s choices.
After our guided activities, we'll transition into open cuddle time. This is an opportunity to explore connection at your own pace, whether that means asking someone for a cuddle, sharing a conversation, enjoying gentle platonic touch, or simply being present with the group.
You never have to cuddle anyone. You are welcome to participate in activities, observe, have conversations, take a break, or simply enjoy being in the company of others.
You are always in charge of your own body and your own participation.
Who Is Welcome
Additional Information
Cuddles & Connection welcomes adults ages 18 and older of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.
Whether you’re new to consent practices and platonic cuddling or have been exploring them for years, you’re welcome here.
You don’t need to arrive with a partner, know anyone beforehand, or have any experience with cuddle events.
Come as you are, with your curiosity, your boundaries, and your authentic self.
Consent & Community Agreements
At Cuddles & Connection, consent is more than a set of rules. It’s something we practice together.
Our agreements help create an environment where everyone can explore connection while honoring their own boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others.
Here’s what you can expect:
- Platonic touch only. Everyone remains fully clothed. No kissing, sexual touch, or erotic touch.
- Cuddling is always optional. You never have to touch anyone or participate in any activity that doesn’t feel right for you.
- Ask before touching. Always ask for clear verbal consent before initiating physical contact.
- Only a clear yes means yes. Silence, hesitation, or lack of resistance are not consent. If you’re unsure, it’s a no for now.
- You can change your mind at any time. A yes can become a no, and you never have to explain or justify your boundaries.
- Respect everyone’s privacy. Personal stories and experiences shared during the event stay within the group.
- All feelings are welcome. Whether you’re feeling playful, nervous, joyful, quiet, or emotional, you don’t need to show up in any particular way.
- Ask for support when needed. I’m available throughout the event if you have questions, concerns, or need help navigating an interaction.
We’ll review our agreements together during the opening circle so everyone begins with a shared understanding.
Your body. Your boundaries. Your choice.
Preparing for Your Visit
A little preparation will help you feel comfortable and ready to enjoy our afternoon together.
What to Wear
Wear comfortable clothing that allows you to move freely and cuddle comfortably, similar to what you might wear to yoga or ecstatic dance.
This is a fully clothed event, and clothing stays on throughout.
Please avoid fragrances and glitter to help keep the space comfortable and accessible for everyone.
What to Bring
- A yoga mat, blanket, or something comfortable to sit or lie on
- A pillow or stuffed animal, if you’d like one for cuddling
- A snack to share
- Water or another non-alcoholic beverage in a securely sealed container
- An open mind and a willingness to explore connection and consent
A Sober Space
Cuddles & Connection is a sober event. Please arrive sober and remain substance-free throughout our time together. Alcohol and recreational drugs are not permitted.
Arrival & Preparation
Doors open at the scheduled event start time. Participants have 30 minutes to arrive, get comfortable, and settle into the space before our opening circle begins.
Everyone must be present for the opening circle so we can introduce ourselves and review our shared agreements.
No one will be admitted after the opening circle begins, 30 minutes after the event start time.
You’re welcome to leave at any time.
A Note About Ginger
My sweet, calm 9-pound senior poodle mix, Ginger, lives here and may be present during our gatherings. She’s non-shedding, loves people, and may greet you when you arrive. If you have allergies, concerns about dogs, or prefer not to interact with her, please let me know during your intake call so we can discuss your needs.
How to Join Us
New Participants
All new participants are required to complete a free, 30-minute intake call before registering.
This gives us an opportunity to get acquainted, discuss what you’re hoping to experience, review any questions or concerns, and make sure the event is a good fit for you.
After your intake call, I’ll share the registration details with you.
Returning Participants
If you’ve previously attended Cuddles & Connection, you’re welcome to register directly with me. No additional intake call is necessary.
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